skeeter042
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F me...right?
Jan 29, 2018 10:00 PM
skeeter042
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F me...right?
jumpoff69
She got all kinds of emotional baggage. You were just a rebound. Sorry bruh.
KevinAtWorkDoingNothing
Throw her some serious D.
vwgasyoudead
GetlnLoserWereGonnaOffendEveryone
CaptainSisqo
Some people look at the marriage thing as the endgame. She was close and then someone came in and locked it up. Be careful.
DerpNerpem
Imnotaracistbutt
All the comments here about dropping her and how he's the rebound are idiotic. Judging a whole relationship based on 20 words in a meme.
xFryla
I mean, I had a crush on a guy for a total of 6 months when I was 16, and I still felt a pang of regret when I heard he got engaged.
xFryla
I never pursued it either, which is why it sounds even stupider than it is, but I still felt that jealousy for his fiancee for a little bit.
meknownothing
Maybe she’s just upset because it reminds her of a painful time, not that she doesn’t love you, but it’s just painful memories? Good luck
DontEverMoveHere
Women are not wired like us. Give her some support since they were engaged but keep your eyes open.
onthefridge
Seems the other guy is happier after dumping her. just saying... The next one could be the one for you.
Monkeybone0
You should tell her that if she doesn't get over it and move on, than you're moving on without her. If she's depressed over someone she's
Monkeybone0
Even not with, than she ain't ready for you.
INFJGANGSTER
You were the rebound. :(
EtPourtantNon
Find out why it made her sad before getting drastic. For all you know she just wanted to get married first so she could rub it in his face.
opermech
Wtf, dump her seems a common theme. You deserve better
GetlnLoserWereGonnaOffendEveryone
GoldFrieza
haltwenty13
GET THE FUCK OUT!
Seethreepeeoh
No. No she will not. (Unless you kinda sorta hint at honeymoon locations)
whineandwine
ChrisLovestoFish
Run.
nipplepanties
How's the fish biting, chris?
ChrisLovestoFish
Depends on where, in Ohio am the water is in the weirdd in between stage of ice and open water, but in Mi they are slaying the jumbo perch.
tinycutepolypan
That's not uncommon.
Corman71
sooo, its common..?
SithLordSloth
It happens to almost anybody. If you walk up to her and say "this upset me, and I'd like to know why you care so much" you'll grow? IDK
skeeter042
I like this. Approached her with something similar and awaiting her response. Fingers crossed.
SithLordSloth
Good luck man! She might not even know what she wants, but speak factually and try to figure out what's best for both of you
TheMightyElk
I hate to be that guy.. But maybe you should re evaluate the relationship. Idk shit like that gives me major red flags
skeeter042
Dito
ratfaceddog
Die, toe.
skeeter042
F me... Do I say anything to her about my concern or just let it ride? Argh!
DexterGod
Bang the new fiancé so the wedding falls through and then your gf will be happen again!
wartoaster
Address it as a concern, she may have abandonment issues.
LongtimeLurker7817
Absolutely talk to her, maybe after she isn't as depressed. If there is anything you feel you can't bring up to your SO then that isn't good
TheMightyElk
Communication is the end all be all. Either she works. It out with you or you dodged a bullet
Hidinginmyowncountry
She wont care for you. You have to care and show the relevance of your own feelings. Dont be afraid to assert yourself, no one will for you.
foozlewastaken
You say everything, that's how you relationship. Always be honest with yourself, you're the only one you have to live with your whole life.
XxTippoxX
This. Solid advice. I messed up my last relationship by under communicating. Communicate everything, it's important.
skeeter042
Excellent advice. Thank you
TheMightyElk
This,!
accordingtotheDM
Here's one you can take to the bank: you always communicate. If communicating would ruin the relationship, then communicate.
skeeter042
I really like that. Thank you.