Husband and Wife war. Who is right? It seems to be a male against female thing.

My work boots have been in my closet for a few weeks, I simply set them in the kitchen sink by the door to wipe them off. In all fairness the souls have some sand and dirt on them but very minor and they are sitting the grate that I clean often. Btw we are both drinking and we think this is funny,
As a guy I think this is nothing.
My wife thinks I am dirty and disgusting for doing this.
All opinions welcome.