Got ditched...

Jan 6, 2022 7:01 PM

kbowser

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We got 4 tickets and there's a core 4 on my dart team that have played together for years and I'm one of the them.

I thought it would have been nice to go to a game with friends...

4 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 1

You need a new "team"

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You sure you’re in the team ?

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

So they only keep you around for your dart playing prowess, find/join/create a new team and destroy them!!

4 years ago | Likes 164 Dislikes 2

That is double bull.

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 1

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I'm sorry but what's a dart team?

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

There's definitely some missing context here

4 years ago | Likes 166 Dislikes 1

I feel that way about 99% of the 'I did nothing wrong and all my friends left me' posts.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ahh an actual critical thinker? Of course you’re a 90’s kid

4 years ago | Likes 35 Dislikes 9

Whether there's another side to this or not: just move on & find a different team. Not doing as well while surrounded by friends is better.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Time to start hitting triple 4's.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Sounds like it's time to join their main competition team.

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

This sucks, I’m sorry. If they’re not receptive to you sharing that this hurt, then time for a new team/friends.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Their logic was?

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 1

What was their response when you confronted them on why they went without you?

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Sounds like 3 of your darts team members are getting darts to the face next game, huh?

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You probably dodged a bullet. Avoid them and wait to see who pops up with the Rona. Football games are spreader events.

4 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 2

Two sides to every story.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

That is heinous

4 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

Are they just dumb? Or are they a bunch of mean girls? Or are you a pain? So many questions!

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Time to find a new Dart Team

4 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 2

So you didn't know about the tickets? You confirmed you wanted to go and they went without you any way? Huge pieces missing here.

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

so basically you skipped the super spreader event

4 years ago | Likes 60 Dislikes 16

Maybe true, but it’s at least nice to be invited to the super spreader event.

4 years ago | Likes 25 Dislikes 0

My dad went to a super spreader, he invited me, I said fuck off you're an idiot. He tested positive for covid, he has COPD. He may die

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 4

Unfortunately he fucked around and now he has to find out.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

Sounds like they aren't your friends.

4 years ago | Likes 1487 Dislikes 2

Time for new friends.

4 years ago | Likes 90 Dislikes 0

Time for a new team

4 years ago | Likes 33 Dislikes 0

Theyre not. Theyre his dart team

4 years ago | Likes 252 Dislikes 1

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

I know it's been 3 months... but.. what?

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Puffy vulva.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Did they tell you they got tickets and then you didn't turn up? Surely there is more to the story here.

4 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 1

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4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

I knew from the minute the tickets were gifted and showed excitment at the opportunity to go to my first football game with my team. 1/2

4 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 1

I wasn't told when it was so I couldn't even not turn up if I wanted to. I was excited to go and they all knew it I made it pretty obvious.

4 years ago | Likes 28 Dislikes 1

These people are not your friends in that case. How horrible that they didn't include you! They KNEW it meant a lot to you.

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

did you even ask when the game was?

4 years ago | Likes 14 Dislikes 0

Well if that's the case they sound like terrible team mates/friends and I think you should follow others advice and try start a new team 1/2

4 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

With cocaine and hookers, or just bbq and beers 2/2

4 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 1

In fact, forget the darts team!

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Did you assume it wasn't close enough to ask when the game was? I have done that before.

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

The friends should still have reached out if he hadn't said anything

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I guess.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Can you elaborate? Did they ask you? Are you close with the team? Was it on purpose? There is so much information missing here…

4 years ago | Likes 86 Dislikes 3

Honestly, I think OP should use this as an impetus to reflect on themself. 3 people don't usually all agree to ditch another on a whim

4 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 5

People get ostracized for all sorts of reasons, like being gay, disabled, brown, introverted, poor, ugly, or just awkward. This is a weird

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

assumption.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I also wonder if it was a misread/implied invite or if the team showed up afterwards talking about what a fun time they had.

4 years ago | Likes 45 Dislikes 1

The 2nd one

4 years ago | Likes 32 Dislikes 0

Go join the arch rival team and grin every time you beat them. :)

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Mate swerve those whoppers. You deserve better than a bunch of no marks who do stuff like that

4 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 0

I read this in a scouse accent

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

And you'd be 100% correct to given I'm a scouser

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well in that case, I'd ditch 'em. Wouldnt even bother with an announcement that I was ditching, just straight stop going and find a new team

4 years ago | Likes 46 Dislikes 0

I think DART is a job isn’t it? Disaster Assistance Response Team.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

Why would that job need a sponsor?

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I assumed they played darts together.

4 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Time to find a team of lovable misfits, train them via montage, have a falling out, and then reconcile just in time to beat your old team in

4 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 2

With lots of 80s music

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Synthesizers for days.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

your city's Darts Championship which is inexplicably held in a small arena in front of a standing room only crowd. Also, congrats on the

4 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

new love interest who's a decade younger than you and substantially out of your league.

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

But she has a good heart and work hard as a waitress in the local diner, despite having the body of a supermodel

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You must be really good at darts

4 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 2

Statistically I'm the best on the damn team

4 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Get to the finals, then just ditch them and leave them high and dry.

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

Got to play offs last season and lost. Cracked my tooth earlier that day and still played in immense pain.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

There u go man. It’s sucks but they literally only want you there to carry them. Do u have other options?

4 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Seems that way right now and I've had other teams try to poach me but I liked my team

4 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

OP, I'll be waiting for your r/NuclearRevenge post ;) Hate is bad... but if harnessed its a hell of a motivation powerhouse. Switch teams.

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Join a competing team, beat their asses, then persuade the sponsor to jump ship

4 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

What a bunch of assholes

4 years ago | Likes 503 Dislikes 3

If one person is an asshole, they're an asshole. If everyone is an asshole, maybe you're the asshole

4 years ago | Likes 37 Dislikes 18

OP could literally do nothing but make racist jokes. Assuming they are a Saint is just as irrational. Defending them makes zero sense

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 16

*Sample population of 3*. We surveyed 10 people and determined coffee is good for your heart. ~ some bullshit medical claim.

4 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 1

Sample size of 3 according to OP. For all we know everyone in their life ditches them all the time. Why are you making assumptions

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 7

Sample population of 3 people used for that conclusion. If 3 people ate today, is world hunger over?

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

Depends. Is the scope of the world limited to those 3 people?

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

If anything, you assumed OP is an asshole because 3 people were assholes

4 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 3

No. I simply repeated a common cliche that suggested that when everyone around you seems negative, it is improbable it is everyone but you

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 6

who did they take instead of you?

4 years ago | Likes 357 Dislikes 2

One of the other them

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Yoko

4 years ago | Likes 21 Dislikes 1

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

the question now is which of the other 3 is OP? I'm going with Ringo

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

T Pain

4 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Gave it to some rando at the game

4 years ago | Likes 456 Dislikes 3

You must not be fun to be around, at least to them.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

so fun.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Have you considered maybe it’s you? I used to get left out a lot. Sometimes it’s them, not always though, you know? I’d ask at least

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

Wow f*ck them

4 years ago | Likes 45 Dislikes 0

That cannot be real….

4 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 1

This might sound crazy but... have you asked why they didn't invite you? It's OK to tell people they hurt you dude.

4 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

That's terrible. How absolutely fucking rude of them. I'm so sorry

4 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 0

Fuckin hell that’s painful.

4 years ago | Likes 55 Dislikes 0

Whaaaaaaaaaaat? That's brutal.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

FFS!

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Fucking what?! More details please

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Ouch. What a bunch of dicks

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

New dart team time my friend

4 years ago | Likes 564 Dislikes 2

Agreed. You’ve been carrying the team for too long, find people who value you.

4 years ago | Likes 39 Dislikes 0

Make sure to take send a letter to your sponsor too. 50/50 they care but it might make them lose faith in the team

4 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 1

that sounds super shitty. say you're disappointed as all fuck and then never initiate communication with these dudes again. is what i'd do

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

At the football game? They didn’t invite someone else? Seems like they expected you and you were a no show. Maybe a miscommunication.

4 years ago | Likes 24 Dislikes 0

Ouch. Best wishes finding actual friends. It can be difficult.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Time for new friends imo

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Your friends should think of you. Maybe you should get some new (and better) friends.

4 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

I guess you aren’t on the team

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

If you're hurt try to find a way out without grudge. Voicing your feelings and talking it through or walking out. Don't make let it burden

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Fuck them.

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Is there more to this? Did they hide the tickets from you?

4 years ago | Likes 47 Dislikes 0

There is absolutely more to this

4 years ago | Likes 72 Dislikes 0

My theory is he was pouting or some shit, told them off like "go without me then" and called his bluff.

4 years ago | Likes 35 Dislikes 4

My guess was the tickets were free under the condition that the 4th ticket goes to that person, or that 4th person owned all the tickets?

4 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 5

Basically saying "We'd prefer a complete stranger to enjoy the game with us instead of you." They ain't your friends no more...

4 years ago | Likes 469 Dislikes 0

Never were likely

4 years ago | Likes 94 Dislikes 0

Take their valve stem cores and shove a potato up their tail pipe. Just when they think they got one problem fixed shit really hits the fan

4 years ago | Likes 64 Dislikes 1

Don't take all the valve stem cores. Just take the ones from diagonally opposite tires.

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Taking notes*

4 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

I do not recommend nor have I ever committed vandalism. That being said I'd be amazing at it. If I did. Which I do not.

4 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

For scientific research for a book of course lol I would never

4 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 0

1) How do you get the valve stem core out? Pliers? 2) Would something that could be wedged in like a tangerine work? Asking for a friend.

4 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Valve stem removal tool

4 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

4 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Ooooooh!

4 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0