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Seriously, please stop. Thank them tomorrow, veteran's day, 4th of July, just not today. Remember the Fallen today.
For me that's ETSA Hanson, MM3(SS) Torres, and a number of others, during and after the Navy, but those are the 2 friends that I was closest to. Those are the 2 I still cry for. They are the one's that have left a hole in my heart.
Sidenote -party hard, just take a minute and Hail the Fallen please.
FP edit - fixed a drunken typo
idrinkcheapbeer
I can see how getting thanked on a day where we're supposed remember people that didn't make it back can rankle a person.
timidtimeturner
Dude it doesn't mean they can't show you respect too. They are showing kindness to you, doesnt mean they dont remeber those that fell. Relax
sayoung0311
Just say “thanks for saying thanks” and carry on.
Gnago
Is this an American holiday? We have remembrance day in November but that’s about it
thescottishfox
Aye, tis.
purdhapley
You’re absolutely correct. Just try and remember that their intentions were good when they say that.
thescottishfox
Agreed.
dougmr
Thank you for your service.
BubbaWunk
I may go place some pennys on markers today my friend.
Dsoir
You do that, it is appreciated, really. Better go to your VFW or Am Legion post. Listen to their stories. Don’t let the memories of them die
RobBobertyYT
Serious question, is it for those who died and served, regardless of how they died? Or only for this who died in service?
thescottishfox
Some say for those only in Service, I choose all that have passed.
ImgurIsOutOfUsernames
You can also remember to appreciate those who choose to serve so that you can enjoy the life you live. In addition to those that died.
thescottishfox
Veteran's day my friend.
TheSublimelyMagnificentJechtUsernameMarkIII
It might be an annoyance to you but make the day for others!
TakWriterOfWorlds
Don’t thank a vet. We have our day. Just take a minute. https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/National_moment_of_remembrance
thelaughingman1776
I never get used to being thanked. I just did a job. It feels so awkward.
BrobiwanKenobro
Maybe they just know you're dead inside.
thescottishfox
Bro
BrobiwanKenobro
Bruv!
kedtheduck
They're thanking the soldier that gave their life for your o make it back
PleaseLeave
They thank you because they respect you, you came back when others didnt make it through
gsurfer04
They thank soldiers because society pressures them into it.
thescottishfox
I get it, I do. I want to redirect their gratitude to the correct place. Which is not me, not this day.
SomeRandomDudeWhoUpvotesThingsHeLikes
Although I understand where you're coming from and agree, please don't take it as an insult. I didn't realize this either. People mean well
thescottishfox
I don't take it as an insult, and in person I just smile and move on. I try to do a yearly PSA to redirect ppl to those whose day it is.
narniasreal
I also hate it when people thank this guy on memorial day
thescottishfox
Right? He's a dick.
zonekill5150
I am sorry for your loss. I know that it is mine too. But you felt it and because of that you have my support.
BanMeTwiceShameOnYous
Hey OP, thank you for your service
thescottishfox
Didn't see that one coming. Nope, not at all. You got me Billy.
0TheTiger
Yay! Billy you are the best!
CharmanderShepard
Ive been dragged into work because our company wants to promote memorial day bs. I'd rather be home consoling my parents.
CharmanderShepard
I think people forget that others are still mourning and are jaded af. They have bbq's, thoughtlessly thank the wrong ppl, go shopping...
thekreat
How many countries are actually at war today? cause I dont know. We remember and cherish our veterans but the war was 70years ago. (Finland)
SanSamis
Even Google has it wrong on their main US page today
thedarkcanuck
I'm a Canadian vet so I might have the same perspective here, but I've never liked being thanked for my service. Sometimes it feels like 1/
thedarkcanuck
An empty platitude, and I'd rather just not get the attention. Just don't berate me for "murdering children" and it's all good
Redeyedguy4291
Well then you shouldn't have murdered all those children! Sarcasm obviously
gsurfer04
Seriously. In the USA it's ingrained into public society to worship the military.
Phatplat
I always tell my brother that I’m glad I’m not memorializing him today.
Messer77
30yrs 4 months and 28 days, made it out with almost all the pieces I started with. I don’t “celebrate” the day, I REMEMBER IT.
thescottishfox
Hoo yah
SyphenedWimp
Sorry to say but MM4 is not a navy rate, maybe I mistook that but let me know if I'm wrong
thescottishfox
My apologies, MM3. E-4
SyphenedWimp
Oh that's fine, I was just confused
thescottishfox
For good reason, and a good catch. TY
LuminoZero
You are most certainly right. MM is Machinist Mate. The number stands for the 'Class' (First, Second, Third). There is no 4th class.
LuminoZero
I should know, I was an MM2 myself.
thescottishfox
I fixed my error. Apologies shippie.
DoublevBomb
Some people come back, but end up committing suicide in large part due to what they experienced. Where do they fit into this whole idea?
thescottishfox
I consider them just as much a Casualty of War, and also honor them this day.
DoublevBomb
They basically are, just delayed, and that's probably a good way to go about it. It's a shame how common an outcome it happens to be.
jmulderr
They're just saying you're dead to them.
BananaHeads
That's what she said
thescottishfox
That cracked me up. *claps*
Alfadorfox
Spoilers for The Sixth Sense?
AnimalJere
This advice conflicts with the previous advice a veteran gave me, which was to thank them for service
thescottishfox
And now you have learned, veteran's don't agree on all things. They just usually have a reason why they have the opinions they do.
AnimalJere
ya, my step dad was in the army and even still i think the difference between veterans day and memorial day isnt clear to a lot of civilians
StalkerMagnet
I get ahead of the curve by never thanking military members for their service.
BanMeTwiceShameOnYous
FreelancerRexx
Thank you for not making it any more awkward than it is. Having random people come up and thank me messes with my anxiety.
wherearemytesticles
Well I'm German so it's probably a bad idea thanking our veterans.
tomyironmane
Given the way some people use that as a blow off phrase, it's cool. Be excellent to each other, and party on.
IncompetentRobotElders
No need for thanks, comped meals, discounts, or anything like that...but...don't spit on us or call us baby killers either. TY Vietnam Vets.
ThisFireGrowsHigher
Thank you
Alittlequacky
Many veterans appreciate that so keep it up!
bananahost
that's not the reaction that comment aimed for
bgladGod
KNIVESY
Same. I thank people who have done something for me. Like hold the door open or let me in front when I had 2 things and they had 15.
thescottishfox
Okay I laughed at that. *finger guns*
LompHoofd
PotatoGunnaPotate
HammSlammage
HappyMadison
TheOne11111
I feel like they shouldn't NEED a reason or special day to thank veterans. they do need the day to remember the dead tho
PowwerOrb13
In Canada it's the biggest Holdiay of November. Lest we forget remembrance of those who died while larks still bravely sing and fly.
TakWriterOfWorlds
Thank you for not thanking me.
usernamehidden
Exactly this :)
davebeastly
You're not welcome.
TakWriterOfWorlds
davebeastly
Man, that show was criminally under appreciated.
TakWriterOfWorlds
I’m kind of embarrassed to admit I don’t know what show it is. I only know it from the reaction gifs.
idowhatiwantwastaken
I actually hate being thanked. Cause I'm still unsure how to respond after all these years.
thescottishfox
I always say, "it was my honor," and quickly move on.
Meletique
Respond the same way as someone saying "have a blessed day". Stammer thank you and get the hell out of there.
TakWriterOfWorlds
PapiBlanco
I'm no vet, but I assume the only correct way would be via finger guns
ScrewMyVacationPlansIGuess
In BMT we were advised to reply with “thank you for your support”. Still hate it though.
idowhatiwantwastaken
I have used that as well but it feels weird. I usually just say thank you and walk away.
CaptRackham
I'm a reenactor and I hate when people who don't know thank me. Like I'm just a nerd with a uniform
CaptRackham
WWII I should add so it's not even like I look current
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CaptRackham
I've had people get borderline violent because someone else has thanked me.
DumpoldRant
Stolen Valour! *shrieks*
peeweepeterson
I get even more a head. I walk around with a military hair cut and get all the perks and they never ask for my id.
TimtegrityGT
You are a pathetic bitch.
peeweepeterson
Call me a bitch. I’ll be a bitch with two legs.
FoundationSCP
People not in the military aren't allowed buzz cuts?
SneakEFoxxe
Hey buddy are ya gonna make more SCP stuff?
TimtegrityGT
Of course they can. It’s the acceptance of the military-associated perks based SOLEY on the haircut that makes you profound cunt.
girlwithasurprise
I thank them with blowjobs and sex.
BeerBatteredandBold
We also accept alcoholic beverages and hand stuff
hotrodny
I would be a soldier so I could be a vet :D
Sockers
Let's just clarify: the fallen or just vets?
mcd0g
carsandpibblesarelife
Asking the real questions.
SavageMaiden
Well you're a transgender (according to one of your posts) What else could you ask for from a Navy guy?
Fonzibear
Username checks out
xrayx
and practitioning satan worshipper.
girlwithasurprise
Time for whiskey and slaying O_O
girlwithasurprise
A navy boy wanted me to fuck him... But i preferred the marine that made me unable to sit right the next day ;) I'm a bottom bitch
SavageMaiden
I know who you are talking about. Lives in San Diego.
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OlDishandSwish
girlwithasurprise
Bob570
Just letting you know, that's not a girl....
GregTheLemons
Uhhhh. You know what? You do you.
CaptRackham
Um mate that's a trap
girlwithasurprise
Shhhhh
DarkwingDuc
A mouth is a mouth.
CaptRackham
Cool have at it
DumpoldRant
An asshole is an asshole
FaoySamfs
As a service member I hate seeing this crap. It is massively arrogant to correct people who are showing appreciation.
GTimgur
THANK YOU.
CoffeeTrampTossBitch
I say "I know your day is Veteran's day but thank you for your service anyway"
anybodyseenmypants
He is arrogant for pointing out the actual purpose of this holiday? Don't get butthurt because you are ignorant.
rambosmurf
You make a good point, but we vets have an obligation to educate & direct appreciation toward the real heroes who didn't come home.
GoonSquadOne
People will never know if you don't tell them.
gasfiltered
They don't need to know. They can't know how we feel, and we're not entitled to any special thanks on the other days. Let it slide.
kreigmstr
As a Veteran and a Gold Star family member I prefer OP's message. It's not a celebration it's a Memorial. Thank the Vets on Veterans Day.
AkimboSlice22
Well said, I appreciate all of those that have served. I always say thank you for your service to all military, I'm grateful regardless...
OafLikesaSmallBike
There is a way to tactfully do it. I know they mean well. You disgrace the fallen if you act like a dick to people trying to show sympathy
GTimgur
Thank you.
thescottishfox
indeed
rambosmurf
Precisely! It's one thing to educate and another to shame. Spread honor for the fallen, not shame for not understanding the holiday.
UpRisen
The fallen died so that their brothers didnt have to. Respecting a living veteran/SM IS respecting the fallen.
MrDirtyEars
Yes and, I don't think it's too much to ask people to learn a little civics and get their holidays straight.
Valladeza
Here here
photog
I just talked to my dad today who was in Vietnam. He said he didn't notice people thanking up until a couple of years ago. He says he's 1/2
photog
2/2 fine with it but recognize that if you were in a specialty service, and seen the worst of it, they may not like it.
TakWriterOfWorlds
It’s not arrogant to correct someone. Especially if it can be done tactfully.
GTimgur
Keyword: tactfully.
redraider24
Thank you! This post pisses me off quite a bit, a lot of my family has served we thank them, for their service and for the hardship of loss
thescottishfox
a lot of my family has served too, including me, I'm a Stewart, we serve. This is how I feel. You get to feel differently, because America.
thescottishfox
You can also put a post on imgur with your feelings, and not be arrested for it, because America
PeteButtigieg
I was reading the Washington Post comments and I read that we should also be thanking firefighters, teachers, and the police.
thescottishfox
hrm
Bmxrider70763
Wow
Bmxrider70763
There is a way to do it with tact.
mrdoublejr1360
Thank you sir. How else are we supposed to show our gratitude
watdefuqBoi
Agreed
Sidthislefitz
Eh, I agree and disagree. There's certainly a more tactful way of correcting someone, but I imagine it's always nice to thank a (1/2)
Sidthislefitz
service member or veteran for their time, no matter the day, it's just important to give the lost their day too.
reduglie
I would rather not be thanked for my service, but I know it’s not about me. Some choose to honor the dead by thanking those alive to hear it
thescottishfox
notice how I am complaining here, and not yelling at every person with good-meaning ignorance. By doing it this way, I'm not shaming anyone
Beezlebubble
Exactly. My dad was in the reserves and ready to deploy twice and never got called up, then in the coast guard and never saw action. Thanks
Beezlebubble
everyone he sees. He would be heart broken to be told this.
rambosmurf
You done good @OP, this old soldier thanks you!
Andyatlast
Yeah, still makes you seem like a whiny lil bitch tho. If my buddies were still alive they'd be BBQing and glad folks were thinkin bout em.
AkimboSlice22
People say that for appreciation regardless. How can we tell those that have fallen thanks for their service? So we thank those making it..
LinearAlgebro
"I HATE IT WHEN..." isn't complaining?
ikeepbees
Read more carefully, pal
Jessicarrrlove
He said hes complaining here, not that hes not complaining.
LinearAlgebro
fuck
Jessicarrrlove
At least you're taking it with grace! :p
cuecue
As a veteran, I would just rather people not thank me. I didn't do anything amazing, no MoH, nor any stars. I was just doing my job.
AkimboSlice22
Yeah but people dont know that. You sacrificed your family friends etc to serve. So were thankful.
TacTheScribbler
Same. I was a desk jockey, never deployed. I didn't put my life on the line. I stared at a computer.
toastfrancaise
You sacrificed time away from your family for basic and likely where you were stationed. Also enlisting meant you could have been deployed.
toastfrancaise
I am always grateful for those who sign up to serve to defend my rights for their sacrifices (no matter how small or how they feel)
LawnPygmy
If you can tell me what I was defending, I'd love to hear it.
ohwhocaresanyway
I disagree. It is just like people saying happy vets day to active members. We need to know the difference between the days of remembrance.
smartgirl63
At our school, we have a Veterans Day performance and invite all active military, and veterans. Seems weird to leave out active military.
thescottishfox
there's an armed forces day, and it can be more difficult to get an active duty to come by.
candiduscorvus
Well everyone currently serving is destined to become a vet of some sort.
ohwhocaresanyway
There is still a difference between a vet and active member.
candiduscorvus
Yes there is but to get hung up on that seems unnecessary.
Error404TrollNotFound
That's dumb though. Just because it's memorial day it doesn't mean you can't show support to military ppl who are alive. Just because it's
Error404TrollNotFound
Veterans day doesn't mean you can't show support to active military. Support should not be limited to one day only per designation.
ohwhocaresanyway
Just because it’s Halloween doesn’t mean you can’t say merry Christmas.
Error404TrollNotFound
Two entirely different things. You should show support for your service members year round, not just on holidays.