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Feb 18, 2018 11:21 PM
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darthbiscuit
“And then he beat me with jumper cables.”
yourmomsworstfriend
This. I get this.
septillion
My advice would be: If a girl isn't sexually attracted to you, it doesn't mean she doesn't care about you, or doesn't like you.
nafun
"But I promise you, in a few years you'll look back on this moment and it will hurt just as bad."
InsincereSam
Plot twist: he’s a teacher.
DietCokaine
Time heals all wounds, BUT NOT HER FUCKIN WINDOW! *shattering sounds*
IHeardYouLikedThings
My dad had the same advice. I thought it was kinda BS at the time but a year later, yea I can see that.
notaballoon
"so not only should be you sad, you should be ashamed!"
iamspartan1262
I'm more sad that I let her hurt me than I that I lost her
CaptainSl00000000w
I had this same situation with a dude in middle and high school. Turns out he's gay. If anything, inner 13-y-o me is relieved.
TsubakiTragic
When I got dumped first time my mum (didn't have a dad) said "suck it up sunshine and go chop some wood". Chopping wood is great therapy.
jsowder32
K, I'm stealing that shit. All I got was sympathy and it will be okays. This is actually good and helpful.
PeopleAreMadeToBeBroken
There's no need to be sad, you lost someone who didn't love you, she lost someone who would do anything for her
gleely
I needed this. Thank you.
FloridaLawyer
Being a dad isn’t easy. I hope to remember this for later.
morithum
Shouldn’t feel ashamed for being a vulnerable kid. Still good advice though.
oldshot
If I was the kid,I don't think I would feel ashamed, but maybe more "bothered" that I wasted too much effort on this situation
Vallanth
Ashamed may be a bad choice of words here.
LoneTiger
Rips4w
You shouldnt feel ashamed. Thats a terrible fucking message. Rejoice that youre the type to care that deeply. Its a rarity.
MajorLeagueFister
Worst thing that ever happened to me was the girl I loved telling me I was the love of her life after I found out she was cheating on me.
TwoDogsFucking
P.S. - "She wasn't laughing when she found herself hogtied in the trunk of my car."
Leonon
firehawkcultist
https://78.media.tumblr.com/0f36bbb717dc2a236f4944aaca48f939/tumblr_owah1hizwX1sv9lmgo1_500.gif
TheProfessionalOne
Nice one Dexter!
ChorizoPig
Why should man be sad? Man lost someone who didn't love him.
BojackTheHorsemanDontActLikeYouDontKnow
Being ashamed about things that happened when you are young is par for the course
SpellingEternity
"That being said" - he continued - "You still shouldn't call me dad in public. It's embarrassing."
twofishtails
Classic!
IgnatiusJReilly2601
Being rejected hurts at first, but the pain fades away. The regret of being too scared to find out will only grow and fester.
thehighestwalls
“I would rather have a life of oh wells than a life of what ifs.”
IstoppedlikingmyusernameSoIchangedIt
Damn that Dad did a good Dad
hungitalianohwaitthisisntgrindr
a dad did something good. time for imgur to circle up!
Soulshade
Follow up 10 years later with "Yeah, you were pretty stupid back then. Its ok we all were"
Walatalalaw
Dad to the bone
Jerojero
There’s no better way to say that
xjphil2001
Fuck dude, he sure did.
IHonestlyJustStoleAllOfMyPostsFromRandom
hotdamnphigam
He sure Dad
Malloon
Even better advice is not being ashamed for something that was unavoidable and ultimately harmless.
kcrvoxtano
Would’ve been better to say “you won’t give someone so much when they’ve given you so little.” Not about shame, but wisdom.
UnPetitSugarcube
Yeah wtf? "I know you're hurting now but one day you'll be ashamed of yourself." How is this supportive?
thelazyninja
It's not. It's toxic masculinity. (*gasps from back row. Silence. Dude in back row shouts* "oh shit he said it! Downvotes incoming!").
Cydom
I can agree in with your sentiment, but I think the idea here was more "I respect you're sad, but in time you'll see it as no loss."
PaintedSlate
Wheat from the chaff right here.
FlatPlutoSociety
Yeah, I'm pretty glad that my parents never encouraged me to be ashamed of my feelings. That only encourages really unhealthy repression.
iwanttomountndewya
Yeah my dad would yell at me anytime I started crying no matter the context. I could only cry around certain ppl for the longest time
idontenglishsorry
Hey! Sup
feeltheice
I'm glad my parents never encouraged emotions, and then the millitary really hammered that one home. Now I'm known as the Kind ANGRY dude.
Seph89
astrojams1
time will heal broken window
KawaiiRonPaul
Got to make it personal, got to make them feel it.
Mrflufikins
Sauce?
MarineOnaMission
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rabidpuppy88
Darude Sandstorm
RandomGuy12345678910
Doogie Howser, the later years
Chokehold
How I Met Your Mother. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=zcU1rMSgzDg
Mrflufikins
Thanks
spiceass9000
99% sure it’s how I let your mother. I can’t recall the episode number though
Mrflufikins
Thanks I didn’t remember that part
hairthatsparkles
How I met your mother. The episode is "who wants to be a Godparent" season 7 or 8
KyleKylesonz
Met*
astrojams1
how i let your mother what
nohman64
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