"... the same sexism that hurts women also hurts men"

Sep 6, 2016 8:54 PM

TotallyNotAGirl

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Not mine! I was just browsing my favourites and thought it was good to be reposted.

FP edit: I didn't know but there is a full version of the comic: http://imgur.com/gallery/k2Z4G Thanks to those who pointed it out!

As it is my first time in FP, send me your cat pics!!!

Everyone you meet... Shoot them in the face. Problem solved.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

Truth. As boys we're told only girls cry, toughen up, then when you do, you're a fag. It has to stop.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

okay, I'm a chick, and I'll call ANYONE being coward a sissy or wuss bc they are synonyms for that word.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 5

I just fucking hate everyone

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Except the issues stem from toxic masculinity and patriarchy you shitlord.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 20

It's more about what you let people say hurt you. Someone calling you a fag or gay says more about them than you. Their ignorance not yours.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

For the unaware, this is a "Why we need Feminism" thing. Feminism is for both men and women, Dawgs. (Thank you, @op)

9 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 11

exactly! =)

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

Say 'because' one more time, pussy!

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

I'm bi. I have respect for both genders, some days more on one side.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

also crossdressers are hot

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

My wife left me for a guy who identifies as non-binary and wears women's clothing. I really stopped caring about any of that shit.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Its all, you know, like, just about, labels and stuff right? Seriously though well put

5 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's great taht this is a message that supports everyone. Makes me happy

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 3

You should be thankful people still care enough to try to toughen your hide so you have half a fucking chance of becoming an adult.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Whats the option for not becoming a victim (as a guy that is)?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

How about, no.

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 11

I wanted to smack whatever kid or teacher that told my son he shouldn't want to play with girl toys. He didn't even know there was a 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 2

Difference because we always just got him toys that were in line with his interests. I've been trying to correct this ever since 2/2

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 1

This is how you men's issues

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 4

If only there was some movement for equality, like... REAL EQUALITY. Something with a name... That RESONATED and spoke to EVERYBODY

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 3

And didn't imply one gender was inherently right, built on a foundation of claiming the other was inherently wrong.

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 3

It's almost complete bullshit, but, whatever dude. Human beings are hardwired via DNA. All the talking in the world won't change it.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 5

If you're a body builder in drag, you have to be a funny queen, wesley snipes in too wong fu vs gia gunn

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 4

A yes. The "guy who likes cute things" issue. I distinctly remember being called a faggot on many occasions because I liked kittens

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 4

As a straight woman, I'm a faggot for kittens.

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Anyone who DOESN'T like kittens is a faggot.

9 years ago | Likes 13 Dislikes 4

Hey! Plenty of faggots like kittens too! Can't we all just like kittens???

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 0

We all must love kittens. Failure to love kittens is a death penalty offense.

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 2

How about toughening the fuck up?

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 21

How about shutting the fuck up?

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 2

Once, stereotypical masculine attributes like being tough and stoic and fearless were in high demand. These days, mostly... they aren't.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 12

and that's a good thing. all of those have bad sides to them. being tough means not being able to seek help or get therapy, even when

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

you need it. being stoic can be lonely. no one is truly fearless, some just hide it better, but it still affects them.

9 years ago | Likes 8 Dislikes 1

I feel like my point is missed. Since modern life in America is NOT a hellish war zone, there is therefore not much demand for boys to (1/?)

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

train to be potential warriors from childhood. But Western society evolved from that- we used to send boys to the front lines at a (2/?)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

moment's notice, and if it came to it we demanded that they dying fighting for the nation/tribe/clan what have you. That's WHY people (3/?)

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

Oh look, more shit that was relevant 30 years ago but is no longer pertinent.

9 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 30

You're just a special kind of fucking moron, aren't you? There there :pats your head:

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 2

No longer pertinent? Male suicide is higher know than it's ever been, and you think this message doesn't matter anymore?

9 years ago | Likes 16 Dislikes 1

why is it no longer pertinent?

9 years ago | Likes 9 Dislikes 1

Because I've been out of school for a decade. And even back then, before all this special snowflake bullshit, men were not picked on for

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Being weak or having feelings. Being a male virgin was not a bad thing. Everyone knew you could be sexist against men and women.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

And I went to a county school in the heart of the bible belt. And all this is coming from a male that was in the marching band and graduated

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

a virgin.;

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

what's with the recent upsurge in pro-feminist posts that are intended to make feminism look bad by pointing out a part of feminism?

9 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 11

How does this make feminism look bad?

9 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 1

not this one specifically. just a lot of posts about "Men have it bad too" which is a part of feminism as well so the posts make no sense

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 4

But if you're on imgur then you'd know that not everyone knows it. try to imagine what the normal imgurian thinks feminism looks like (1)

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 2

I wasn't saying anything about that it was more just what prompted the upsurge

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 3

(triggered, etc.) then maybe you can see why this could be helpful. (2)

9 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 1

This is all fine. I just don't get why some people insist on calling it "feminism".

9 years ago | Likes 22 Dislikes 30

Because we acknowledge history and truth.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 5

Wow, didn't expect to get downvoted so much. I guess feminism isn't very open for questions or criticism.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Feminism is about women's rights, Equalism is about equal rights

9 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 16

because it has to do with gender roles and troughout history those gender roles legitimated suppressing women and taking away their 1/2

9 years ago | Likes 23 Dislikes 9

2/2 equal rights but don't want to be associated with the feminist movement.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

1/2 I know what feminism is. Just don't understand why it's so important to cling on to the term and why it is frowned upon if you support

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

rights to vote, to study etc. because the roles women were given took away their power and made men take over the power - that's 2/3

9 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 7

and that's what we call the patriarchy. that's what feminists fought for - to destroy those gender roles. that's why it's feminism :)

9 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 6

9 years ago | Likes 10 Dislikes 3

Are you for real? Do you think someone just came up with the term a couple of years ago or something?

9 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 6

Don't know what makes you think that.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It's obvious why it's called feminism. Because women have been the ones who had to fight for equality for centuries, now us dudes are <1>

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

just now jumping on the bandwagon and too many of us are whinging because it's not immediately being made all about us and our feelings.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 2

1/3 Everyone have been fighting for equality throughout history, feminism is just one branch of that fight.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

3/3 and after the hostile response I got for the initial question I don't really give a fuck anymore.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

2/3 I still don't get why the term is so important, why you can't be for equality without calling yourself a feminist,

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

You can be for equality while calling or not calling yourself whatever you please. Being anti the term feminism suggests you're not tho.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

stop hating on people, treat the peoples with respect, simple stuff

9 years ago | Likes 110 Dislikes 5

Unless they camp in call of duty.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

listen here fucko

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

To quote Wil Wheaton, "Don't be a dick"

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Instructions unclear. Accidentally joined tumblr and third wave feminism

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 1

but what if I hate everyone equally?

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Oh my God, Ill call the UN and check; maybe noone has ever thought of that as the solution to all of the worlds problems! :O

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

Yep, golden rule: Treat others with the respect you want them to treat you with, regardless if they ever return the favor.

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

I don't know man, I think that's too much to ask from people.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

9 years ago | Likes 17 Dislikes 0

Wait weren't these the characters from that time travel show or some such? Very vague, I know

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

More or less, Keanu Reeves and Alex Winter in Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure, movie from the late 80s

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

But is it though? Hear me out, devil's advocate kinda thing here, don't care about votes I have plenty of rep. Here goes:

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It seems like it's a complex issue and not simple at all. The concept might be, but the execution is terribly complex. To put others...

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

...before yourself? Goes against our nature as animals. Yeah, we're smart animals but still. And what do other people need? How can we...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

...know? I'm not saying don't try. I hardly know what I need myself from day to day. I guess all I'm saying is we're all in this together...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

...even if it's our nature to be assholes, we can still try. But it's not simple. And it's not easy. We gotta fight the good fight...

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

FINE I'll stop hating the nazis.

9 years ago | Likes 29 Dislikes 1

I can still nazi what they did that was so wrong

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

wait no

9 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

To clarify: Treat people with respect until they give you a REAL reason for you not to

9 years ago | Likes 19 Dislikes 1

So do we hate Nazis or not?

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Well, contrary to popular belief, not all Nazis were evil. So I'd say it depends on the person

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 1

Indeed, Don't respect Himmler, respect Rommel, for example.

9 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

So, what do we think of Goebbels

9 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0