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Here goes
So, story time. I've kind of always known this about myself, but always tried to push this part of me away. Last December I've decided I've had enough of not being honest with myself and while getting some clothes online - I've added a nice '50s style dress in the order. All I can say that the moment I put it on was one of the happiest moments of my life. Mostly because I felt like I was completely upfront about who I was for the first time. Like something clicked. Also I love how it feels! :)
Well, I immediately ordered some more and now I'm a happy owner of 4 dresses and a petticoat :)
So while 2020 sucked, this was the silver lining for me!
The moral of the story is, it's always worth it to be honest with yourself and to know who you really are!
Anyway, I'm also looking for some friendly people to talk to about this, so if you'd like, feel free to message me!
(...this is so very much not my main account :) )
EDIT: HOLY SHIT! You guys are awesome!
jackhunterjones4
You be you.
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ahorseelbowdeepinme
Jornas
If it sparks joy, keep it.
ButterworthToast
Hopefully ones with pockets dude. More power to you!
sassycephalopod
If that boy on the cover of vogue can wear a dress, you can wear a dress too. And I bet you look fabulous
cenataur
And that's quite ok.
CorneliusCornwall
My dude we are literally in the midst of a pandemic, if you wanna be the prettiest princes of the ball do it.
Krombopulos9000
FrenziiTheSuccubus
RememberTheC4nt
It's so sad that society judges people for their frkn cloth. I hope imgur is better.
bobobean
Hell ye. Do what makes you happy.
Fishy820
Be yourself and nothing wrong not like you said you enjoy killing people. Then I would be concerned.
StepRightUp
Well, as long as he doesn’t start making his own clothes... “It puts the lotion on itks skin....” LOL (Naw, jking.) I love seeing freeness!
caldella
Have fun, man! Fem. here and NGL fluffy petticoat style dresses make you feel special no matter the gender.
kInADress
very much so :)
illtakeasideofkittenswiththat
It’s all good, as long as you’re mastering the twirl. Cute dresses are all about the twirl.
redpandabanana
kInADress
well that goes without saying :)
TheeRealDuke
Do I think it's weird? Do other people? Who gives a fuck? If you can find happiness in this disaster that is existence, do it my dude.
kInADress
exactly how I see it :)
binky4me
SayWhatYouMeanMeanWhatYouSay
Jesus fuckin’ Christ, Janice, I asked you to be a little less extra! Does that fan seem LESS extra to you?!
SandpaperCock
You're not hurting anyone so I'm all for it, rock that dress like no one's ever rocked it before.
Imgerruinedimger
Seriously, so many people out there hung up on kinks like it is any of their business. Are they harming anyone ie children? No? Have at it.
qmoodo
And really it goes beyond kinks, it’s just that gender roles are old repressive customs enforced by hierarchies
HogwartsAlumnus
Kids understand that “I like wearing something” more than adults do anyway
ahorseelbowdeepinme
Destirinity
Eddie Izzard is the fuckin man.
HappyTimeHollis
I'm glad they said that on Australian TV. This country *really* needs trans acceptance and general alphabet media representation.
ahorseelbowdeepinme
Like... like Sesame Street?
HappyTimeHollis
Alphabet is a generalised term to cover LGBTQIA+ - it's easier for people to remember and it's automatically inclusive of everyone.
BadPunsAplenty
It's ok to skirt societal norms.
bikergeek6249
Tried to slip a pun by me, didn't you?
manWithNoHands
Dressing up your language, eh?
ToddCena
Some people just need to aMend their expectations.
Lyzard
Hah, norms
kInADress
what you did there... I see it :)
mm2k
I see what you did there.
Housemaster
SKIRT SOCIETAL NORMS, CAORL!!!
Blackmetalhappiness
Dad, don't.
NotCthulhu
SKIRT, CORREEAERRLLL!!!!!
poscduke
Shenaniganz80
It’s pretty fun isn’t it
angelghoul
Easy outfits! So quick!
ahorseelbowdeepinme
It's pretty AND fun
Shenaniganz80
Indeed
kInADress
sure is :)
Shenaniganz80
Feels great too
TeddyBearWitch
Pretty dresses are underrated. And twirling in them? Oooooo
Shenaniganz80
Twirling in a dress is super fun
HerefortheCatTax
My only concern with this is whether or not they have pockets
indigodragons
Lol ?
msmarshmallo
Asking the real questions
StepRightUp
This!
Silkyninja1
IDoPictureStuff
Do they show a little leg? That'd be nice
kInADress
They do, they end a little below the knees!
woodlez
sunnuvabicks he stole my line :)
HerefortheCatTax
*she!
kInADress
Half of them do!
TomIsMyDog
Now that's a win!
Sugarbritches21
Learn to sew and make your own pockets!
tiniestpurplepotato
Please, tell me you twirled in them. I'm nearly 40 and I still twirl at least once before leaving the house in a dress or skirt
kInADress
What would be the point otherwise? :)
ANALPISS
Where'd you get the dresses from?
Smoretank
2nd this!
showmeallyourkitties
I dunno, I'm a simple woman, I think if you want to dress cutely it should be accepted across the entire gender spectrum, I would like to
showmeallyourkitties
Know more about where you found cute dresses with pockets and the pricing
kInADress
Dolly and Dotty! Didn't specify that they had pockets, it was a pleasant surprise! :)
HerefortheCatTax
Komer
Show us your dresses
FeChefImgur
Doesn't even have to be on you, just SHOW US THE DRESSES :)
Tinkabugs
I would also like to see these dresses..just a pic from the website you ordered from would be perfect
kInADress
I've made a new post, it has one of them :)
forallintensivepurposes
Especially the ones with pockets!
Inganni
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PunishedEdge
WaterDragonHaku
BlomstBror
So gay... Which is good.ONE OF US. ONE OF US. ONE O-
SonvaCumberbatch
Nah, cross dressing doesn't equate to gay. Some peeps just like the clothes.
kInADress
Yeah, I like girls :)
SonvaCumberbatch
Same. I dress as a boy but I still like boys :D
EaNasirsExcellentHighGradeCopper
You do you, man. Enjoy what makes you happy.
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EaNasirsExcellentHighGradeCopper
You see some guy getting support and you just gotta come in and be an asshole, dont you?
Thirddead
This comment is what I came here to say.
TsubakiTragic
same
NothingWorth
Same.
yourmomloveme
idriveajunkerplymouth
Hey, if the leader of the FBI can do it...
IAlwaysUpvoteSexy
The great thing is that by being honest with yourself you'll find someone that this makes them happy too. Y'know?
Lovethesmelloftoastedsourdoughbread
Exactly. Oh and a word about those dresses: pockets.
kInADress
oh, half of them do! :)
MasterRaziel
Lucky!
squeeasy
Or pocket belt i wear them with skirts, i love skirts in summer refreshing breeze
isamario
Chibo3000
iamlegendinjapan
SpecialProjectY
I love that movie.
TomIsMyDog
He was my favorite thing about this movie. Especially after watching Goodfellas for the first time last night.
SpecialProjectY
He was more of a surprising reveal and moral guidance, Mark Strong as Septimus, a cold blooded determined unstoppable... so good to watch.
MsCelia
Stardust?
deathbydoughnut
Gendered clothing is stupid. Poly-cotton blend regardless of how it's cut or sewn is just coverings. Wear what makes you happy.
indigodragons
Yass
EmanonInverse
I take every chance to ask people this, but have you heard of Breaching? https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Breeching_(boys)
Sooner70
I would wear what makes me happy, but Agent Starling seemed pretty pissed off about it the last time I saw her.
nangke
Buffalo Bill could wear any dress he liked but he just had to go make them out of women's skins
isetprettygirlsonfire
Poly-cotton blend is too flammable for my lifestyle. 100% cotton, nomex or kevlar for me.
SayWhatYouMeanMeanWhatYouSay
Just remember that three buttons is a little 90s, Mr. Wayne.
SeriousSeamstress
Try hemp too. Viscose might be ok. It's plant base but I don't know about flammability.
isetprettygirlsonfire
Hemp works, never heard of viscose. Hemp doesn't make for comfortabke underwear
SeriousSeamstress
Viscose feels like silk. Expensive hemp fabric can be soft. How the material is processed and spun are important.
isetprettygirlsonfire
That all sounds out of my price range for underwear.
Kimmykix
As a Transgirl.... yes...YES!! let the femininity flow THROUGH YOU >:)
TeishaTaisha
Skirt go spinny! Though I don't have a skirt that does that, I do have a couple dresses that have a perfect spin to them.
Clara93
One of the best feelings in the world
kInADress
I've always had some feminine traits, never was ashamed of them... This one is something else, but I fully take it as a part of me as well!
Kimmykix
Good! :D Plus I just love femboys/xdressers in general too lol
paintbullits
Yup. Idk why but men in dresses are hot.
kInADress
nice! I'm lucky I'm kinda sorta androgynous looking as well. Used to hate the fact, but in the end it turned out for the best :)
DustyLightning
Now I kinda wanna see how well you can pull off the trap look...
paintbullits
Friendly reminder; t**p is a slur against trans women/cross dressers that is ment to dehumanize us, and perpetuates violence against us.
PatrickHewesStewart
Can we see?
Kimmykix
?
EarthDiedScreamin
I recently starting painting my toenails occasionally because of some similar thoughts and feelings. My wife even complemented me on them
MrMilkTime
My wife paints my nails. Hand and foot. Love it. Cheers me right up.
conflictmuffins
I asked my bf if i could paint his toes 8 years ago and he said 'sure'. Now it's a tradition in our household! He hates unpainted toes now!
bearsareawesome
ireplysometimes
Sounds like you have a keeper :>
conflictmuffins
Absolutely agree! :)
BerniBirke
missojennie
onelessdead
Nailed the lipstick to hair colour match.
joh775
Daughter comes home for semester break and finds her dad dressed in womens clothing. He tells her he a woman in a man's body.
joh775
Daughter is okay with that and goes back to school. Comes home at the next semester break and sees her dad dressed as a man.
joh775
She asks her dad if he changed back to feeling like a man.
MLGsamantha
*she
joh775
He says no. I'm a lesbian and it easier to pick up women when I dress like a man.
MLGsamantha