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I found out my dad has cancer because my supposed “mother” told me by saying it’s my fault he has cancer. She straight up blamed me for quote: “bringing bad energy home” and tried to say that “just because you don’t understand traditional native values and energy transfer” that it’s my fault for going out and having a social life.
She then proceeded to call me pathetic because I was defending myself against her actually delusional accusations. How could I have caused my father, my dad, the only parent I truly love and have lived, cancer? How could I have done that? How is this in any way my fault?
She’s always hated me. Always. One of the earliest memories I have of my life was around 5 years old and it was of her screaming at me to leave her alone and get away from her after I tried to show her that I unlocked a bonus level in Starfox 64. All through my life she would scold me the worst, treat me the worst, make me feel the worst, I had three sisters and four brothers (3 were hers). I just don’t understand what I did to her when I was younger than young that made her hate me all her life. She’s only ever had a hatred for me. She treated all my other siblings so much better than me. Was more compassionate and understanding and reasonable. Even the pedophile. I hate the pedophile. He is a pedophile after all. He’s literally a pedophile. Was arrested for being a pedophile. Was charged as being a pedophile. Went to jail as a pedophile. He is and was a pedophile. Yet I’m the pathetic one? She defends him and everything he does as a pedophile and it was so much worse than just being a pedophile. But I’m the pathetic one?
#memes #socially_awesome_awkward_penguin #not_actually_funny
Canigetbannedagain2
Yay, I mean boo. Damn that hits hard.
Muffyns
why do you keep contact with them ?
halfwayhere
well, fuck your "mother" and def fuck the pedophile - i don't think you're going to get what you want interacting with them
IgnisInvictus
Sounds like a malignant narcissist.
You did nothing wrong, you are just the easiest target.
Sorry about your dad.
Mal1t1a
By the way the conversation where she tells me my dad has cancer? She calls me pathetic. Within the same 39 seconds actually.
MayorofPantstown
Even if he is your dad, they shouldn't be telling you that kind of personal medical information during a job interview. /jk
spontaneous9
Disregard whatever that person said. She's not an oncologist, so she doesn't know SHIT about cancer.
The more you dwell on that bullshit, the stronger her influence over you.
DO NOT pay her any more attention. ZERO.
meganical
People (even family) can form opinions about us early on that we cannot overcome with any amount of work or good deeds. Those people will likely never acknowledge what it is about you that gave them such a bad impression because it’s not about you but is them projecting. She is likely scared for your dad and is taking her fear out on you because she wants to blame something to get her emotions out to feel better. You did not give anyone cancer. Don’t let her ruin your relationship with your dad
AyatollahBahloni
Ṣiva H. Viṣṇu, that's a lot of baggage and resentment to be carrying around. I'm very sorry you have to deal with this. Obviously your mother is delusional, people don't give one another cancer. I wish both you and your father well.
PenguinNamedWobbles
Wtf native values is she on about, is she from some voodoo belief system? Anyways family isn't blood, its who you choose in the end. Just write her off and continue your life, don't even interact with her, just let it go. I remember when my best friends mom died of alcoholism. It didn't bother him for a second as he saw it coming a decade away.
MyDogTige
Congratulations on the job, but hey condolences on your dad
ifeellikesheet
My mom was the same way. She is crazy and manipulative. I hope you escape.
ifeellikesheet
But also congrats on the job. That’s really cool and something you did without her. Get out of there and live your life. You didn’t do that to your dad. The chemicals these rich jerks put in everything is more than likely the culprit and you’re just a punching bag for her displaced emotions.