I’m having a really bad day… please say nice things

Sep 17, 2024 1:12 AM

BrianMMXIX

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Me in 2008 at about 350, can’t find any from when I was over 4bills…

Me now at 232… I’m not done… still not happy for the most part… but I am very proud of that vein on my right arm… that lil fella has been hanging out all the time and the pride I feel in that…

Also a new experience… I am being rejected because of my disability… even tho I was completely up front about my conditions… he got a glimpse of how bad my pain can be on our second date and… says he likes me, a whole lot, but is not sure now…

Got high, rode my bike, got fried chicken… still feel like human waste…

Most Viral edit: thank you for all the “nice things” imgur… a few notes… the before pic was taken about a week before my dad died… I still have the shirt lol, if anyone really loves it that much my dms are open… also a few of you said I’m handsome, thank you and the dms are open lol…

Don't take that upon yourself, and don't put all your emotional eggs into a basket until you know the basket is sturdy...be well, friend.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You glorious motherfucker

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

You deserve better. You will get what you deserve.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Look how far you've come, my friend. This is amazing and undeniably the result of massive amounts of hard work. But you did it. Do you think old you could even conceive of where you'd be now, but here you are! If you stopped today no one could take that from you. Everything here just builds on a win! Don't tear yourself down when you've already done so much. Ride the momentum to whatever's next but enjoy the fact you've come so far.

2 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Keep going 💪 - you got this!

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

You removed a friggin teenager's worth from your skin. That's impressive.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Hey, good progress! Keep it up!

And better you both found out he can't handle it, before you got serious.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

FUCK YEAH OP!!!
We all have bad days, but you got some solid proof that you're a fighter!!
That's really impressive, and I'm proud of you Friend!

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Your loose skin treated you so very very well! I salute your will from someone that lost almost 200

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Looking awesome @op, this is a great success. Keep up the good work.

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Keep working on yourself. It's OK to feel bad, it's not okay to ignore internal battles as they rip you apart.

2 years ago | Likes 120 Dislikes 0

Looking good @op. Hang in there. Your motivation inspires me.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

The prints on those shirts were damn good,

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

My thought too ;-)

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Keep going..you got this.

2 years ago | Likes 18 Dislikes 0

Oofah. Very handsome. 🥰😘🤓💜

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I think you can be happy about your body for the most part. You look good!

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

"nice things..."

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Holy shit, that’s awesome

2 years ago | Likes 5 Dislikes 0

2 years ago | Likes 7 Dislikes 0

You're doing great, working to change yourself into another you.

2 years ago | Likes 12 Dislikes 0

Good job dude! I think you look good already. Keep it up, I’m sure your story has already inspired others. 😊

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

no matter how low the bar of life gets don't stop the limbo

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

From one disabled imgurian to another, I’m proud of you. I settled for someone who didn’t understand my disabilities and regret the time I wasted, I wish I had had the courage to love being single earlier so that I could have found my person sooner. One day at a time. <3

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Other people's bad decisions should not make you feel bad, you can't control that. Self love is more important than other people's love, imo

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I have 0 self love/esteem... I know I possess many qualities... I do not believe them until I hear them from others... and many times... and even then I doubt... 30+ yrs of therapy... my parents did a number...

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

It is hard sometimes yeah, just keep swimming bro. You got this

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Better you found out now about this person than after investing lots of time and energy into the relationship. See it as a positive! He's positively not the right one for you!

2 years ago | Likes 73 Dislikes 0

Yes, rejection is protection!

2 years ago | Likes 11 Dislikes 0

Fam, you’ve done amazing work losing all that weight! And while you might not be satisfied with your current weight, definitely appreciate how far you’ve come, and let energize you!

As for the date, better to find out now than later. Sucks, but at least he was honest.

Since you mentioned a bike, what are your riding? Bicycle? Motorcycle?

2 years ago | Likes 6 Dislikes 0

Its an electric... I pedal a lot tho... my legs are shredded and I do 0 leg days since I started... but also, I used to be 4bills...

2 years ago | Likes 4 Dislikes 0

Noice! Have you considered buying a road bike? Granted they’re manual but they’re very fast and a lot of fun for distance rides. I’m on my own, more modest, weight loss journey to quality for getting my vagina installed and my road-type bike has been a stalwart ally.

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Good luck with that installation... I LOVE my bike... the best thing I ever did for my mental health...

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

At least 10lbs have to be in those massive balls you're carrying around.

2 years ago | Likes 34 Dislikes 0

thank you. I giggled...

2 years ago | Likes 15 Dislikes 0

Should probably get that shit fondled by a urologist

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Nice!

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Nice things.

2 years ago | Likes 37 Dislikes 0

exactly what I asked for!

2 years ago | Likes 20 Dislikes 0

How about Needful Things?

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Beard and glasses look good on you. Congrats on the confidence!

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

I have confidence ? :o

2 years ago | Likes 1 Dislikes 0

Be proud of your accomplishment. Also, are you still friend with Ron Jeremy?

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

I think you mean my Dad... he died about a week after this photo...

2 years ago | Likes 2 Dislikes 0

Ok, now I feel like a worm. Sorry mate, didn't mean to dishonor his memory, feel free to delete my message or I'll do it if you wish. Keep up the good work cause you look great.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

lol my dad would have taken it as a compliment... I am low born sir...

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0

Most of us are, my friend. Wish you a splendid life.

2 years ago | Likes 3 Dislikes 0