8431 pts ยท March 22, 2013
I would love that but im not allowed friends lol. My friendship with that aforementioned friend is near collapse now. Think hes done with the bullshit.
Thanks, its nice to know that people are able to change their minds given more information. There have been a fair few developments since this post but nothing set in stone yet so I won't get into it. I asked husband to keep this post up so thay people like you may gain for perspective, so no, dont delete your comment.
Oh and the trip away. That was a genealogical trip. I'm going spend the day in a graveyard. And possibly some libraries, maybe do a little bit of window shopping. Thats literally it. Its been completely blown out of proportion.So thanks internet for calling me a cunt and all. But if anything just ruined our marriage. Its you guys, giving tonnes of false information and shit advice.
Oh and one more. Our anniversary is on the 13th August, im going away, for the day, on the 16th. I will still absolutely by spending our anniversary together. In his mindset, if theres an event, he takes the whole week of for it, I dont. If its someone's birthday, he takes a week off at work, even if he ignores that person for every other day but the day of their birth.
Also, When I said I loved this new guy more than him... what hes failing to say was that it was in the middle of me having a panic attack and it was only in that 30 min long moment. Earlier in the day I was dancing in his arms singing sweet nothings into his ear. But I guess thats all for naught.That friend of mine, just told me that hes going to do everything in his power to help my marriage to not fail.Its shit like this imgur post pr one of the several on reddit that causes it to.
And that's the thing. I'm seeing it as a bit controlling. And as you can see from his post, everytime something goes wrong. Its blamed on his autism. Or his potential adhd that hes in the process of being diagnosed with. Autism isnt an excuse to be mentally abusive
7. My husband has not made, or even wanted to make the effort to try to make friends. Hes lived here almost 10 years, and he had never had a single friend. All he wants is me. So when I make a friend, he spirals. I belong to him and only him.8. He LOVES getting advice from random strangers on the Internet, and does it everytime we have an argument. He will never ever believe a word I say, it doesn't matter if im pouring my heart out. The internet told him something so it must be correct.
To search for genealogical records. We are never alone together. We're always in public, we make sure of that because we know... people be gossipy little buggers.6. This friend of mine has a life that intrigues me. I dont want to spend that life with him, but I do want to maybe try it myself. He travels a lot, he sees new things, and has a wealth of knowledge about it. I want to do these things with my husband but with two young children, its not always possible.
3. I strongly believe that my new friend is gay and hes just not told me yet, there is no love affair going on. No affair going on. Not even nearly. 4. This is not the first time I have had to choose my husband over my friends. He does this all the time. I am forced to be his, and only his.5. No there is not a pattern to my behaviour. I simply enjoy spending time with someone, and while it started with hobbies, yes, now we have fun doing more for instance, pub quizzes, going to libraries
His intimacy is all dependent on his jealousy. And there is no trust. None at all.2. This new friend of mine has been a little exaggerated, I do not spend every minute of every day with him, we text throughout the day. He makes my life better. I haven't had any friends AT ALL since I was 17. I'm 36 now. I dont feel like im allowed to make friends. Everytime I do, this happens.
Okay. I dont even know where to start with this, and I know im going to get a barrage of hate, based on the comments im seeing. But he linked this to me, possibly in an attempt at showing me how much of a shit person I am? Who knows.I am the wife, and I fully accept that I have been spending a lot of time with another guy. But this post is missing A LOT of context.1. We have been together almost 10 years, and is only when I get a new friend that he shows any sort of interest in me,
Right in the childhood.
Ugh.
Oooh. Some houses have those. Not common though
I need to hear more of this. Please post your favourite trial moment of the day every day.
My husband thought the same. Though take it from someone who waited years and 2 marriages before getting all the things you are saying you want... sometimes it's not all its cracked up to be.
That wouldn't work. Ctrl and right, yes, ctrl and left would do nothing at all. I'm fun at parties.
I'm British, I don't tip.
Both the evergreen and the evergiven have an uncanny knack of pointing in the wrong direction and caising blockages in water... how coincidental.
There's literally a story circulating about the best chess player in the world retiring because he was playing against AI, and the computer made an unusual moved and terrified the player into thinking the computer saw a move he didn't.
Can he actually get more orange tho?... there's a saying from an old advert om the UK... He's been tangoed.
As a fellow brit, sure, the NHS is struggling with wait times, housing is less than affordable,and rhe weather is always dire... but atleast we're not America, so we got that going for us.
UK*
Oh christ. In the we've had 3 weeks of that... Guess we know what's coming.
All*
Sooo when sll of those states have the same rights for dll sexual orientations, do you think pride will stop taking place? Just curious.
But... home is where my husband lives, being at home isn't hurting me romantically...
My daughter does this lol
I scrolled down to see if anyone commented with this. I recognised her voice.
I would love that but im not allowed friends lol. My friendship with that aforementioned friend is near collapse now. Think hes done with the bullshit.
Thanks, its nice to know that people are able to change their minds given more information.
There have been a fair few developments since this post but nothing set in stone yet so I won't get into it. I asked husband to keep this post up so thay people like you may gain for perspective, so no, dont delete your comment.
Oh and the trip away. That was a genealogical trip. I'm going spend the day in a graveyard. And possibly some libraries, maybe do a little bit of window shopping. Thats literally it. Its been completely blown out of proportion.
So thanks internet for calling me a cunt and all. But if anything just ruined our marriage. Its you guys, giving tonnes of false information and shit advice.
Oh and one more. Our anniversary is on the 13th August, im going away, for the day, on the 16th. I will still absolutely by spending our anniversary together. In his mindset, if theres an event, he takes the whole week of for it, I dont.
If its someone's birthday, he takes a week off at work, even if he ignores that person for every other day but the day of their birth.
Also, When I said I loved this new guy more than him... what hes failing to say was that it was in the middle of me having a panic attack and it was only in that 30 min long moment. Earlier in the day I was dancing in his arms singing sweet nothings into his ear. But I guess thats all for naught.
That friend of mine, just told me that hes going to do everything in his power to help my marriage to not fail.
Its shit like this imgur post pr one of the several on reddit that causes it to.
And that's the thing. I'm seeing it as a bit controlling. And as you can see from his post, everytime something goes wrong. Its blamed on his autism. Or his potential adhd that hes in the process of being diagnosed with. Autism isnt an excuse to be mentally abusive
7. My husband has not made, or even wanted to make the effort to try to make friends. Hes lived here almost 10 years, and he had never had a single friend. All he wants is me. So when I make a friend, he spirals. I belong to him and only him.
8. He LOVES getting advice from random strangers on the Internet, and does it everytime we have an argument. He will never ever believe a word I say, it doesn't matter if im pouring my heart out. The internet told him something so it must be correct.
To search for genealogical records. We are never alone together. We're always in public, we make sure of that because we know... people be gossipy little buggers.
6. This friend of mine has a life that intrigues me. I dont want to spend that life with him, but I do want to maybe try it myself. He travels a lot, he sees new things, and has a wealth of knowledge about it. I want to do these things with my husband but with two young children, its not always possible.
3. I strongly believe that my new friend is gay and hes just not told me yet, there is no love affair going on. No affair going on. Not even nearly.
4. This is not the first time I have had to choose my husband over my friends. He does this all the time. I am forced to be his, and only his.
5. No there is not a pattern to my behaviour. I simply enjoy spending time with someone, and while it started with hobbies, yes, now we have fun doing more for instance, pub quizzes, going to libraries
His intimacy is all dependent on his jealousy. And there is no trust. None at all.
2. This new friend of mine has been a little exaggerated, I do not spend every minute of every day with him, we text throughout the day. He makes my life better. I haven't had any friends AT ALL since I was 17. I'm 36 now. I dont feel like im allowed to make friends. Everytime I do, this happens.
Okay. I dont even know where to start with this, and I know im going to get a barrage of hate, based on the comments im seeing. But he linked this to me, possibly in an attempt at showing me how much of a shit person I am? Who knows.
I am the wife, and I fully accept that I have been spending a lot of time with another guy. But this post is missing A LOT of context.
1. We have been together almost 10 years, and is only when I get a new friend that he shows any sort of interest in me,
Right in the childhood.
Ugh.
Oooh. Some houses have those. Not common though
I need to hear more of this. Please post your favourite trial moment of the day every day.
My husband thought the same. Though take it from someone who waited years and 2 marriages before getting all the things you are saying you want... sometimes it's not all its cracked up to be.
That wouldn't work. Ctrl and right, yes, ctrl and left would do nothing at all. I'm fun at parties.
I'm British, I don't tip.
Both the evergreen and the evergiven have an uncanny knack of pointing in the wrong direction and caising blockages in water... how coincidental.
There's literally a story circulating about the best chess player in the world retiring because he was playing against AI, and the computer made an unusual moved and terrified the player into thinking the computer saw a move he didn't.
Can he actually get more orange tho?... there's a saying from an old advert om the UK... He's been tangoed.
As a fellow brit, sure, the NHS is struggling with wait times, housing is less than affordable,and rhe weather is always dire... but atleast we're not America, so we got that going for us.
UK*
Oh christ. In the we've had 3 weeks of that... Guess we know what's coming.
All*
Sooo when sll of those states have the same rights for dll sexual orientations, do you think pride will stop taking place? Just curious.
But... home is where my husband lives, being at home isn't hurting me romantically...
My daughter does this lol
I scrolled down to see if anyone commented with this. I recognised her voice.