392 pts ยท August 22, 2012
Endlessly awkward Finnish lurker.
I didn't have postpartum but it wasn't instant love either. It was more like "Huh, there you are. What the hell do we do now?".
I instantly knew that was finnish porridge, I don't know how. :D Anyway, nice post. I'll always upvote my country(wo)men.
but I'm pretty sure it'll end in a few years. (Also a Finn btw.) 2/2
My (adult) friend still kisses her mother on the lips. Use to it now, doen't seem weird. My 3y also kisses me, it's cute 1/2
Felt like I didn't deserve it somehow. Started to shape my brows and use make up because I had started to feel good about myself.
Might be for some people. Totally opposite for me. I use to have really low self worth and I didn't use make up or shape my brows. 1/2
...that brand. And people tend to pick stuff they've seen/heard of before. 2/2
They might not remember outright, yes. But later when they need a new shampoo etc. and go to the store, they might recognize... 1/2
Europa is one of Jupiter's moons.
This! Who the hell eats 32 grapes...
My mom is 51 and has always said she still doesn't feel like an adult. So I'm really not expecting it to kick in anytime soon (I'm 29).
Yeah, every pregnancy is different. You might even have a nice and serene pregnancy next. Let's hope so!
Mine wasn't that bad, thankfully. I'm still a bit hesitant about having another.
Doesn't horrify me either. Always thought this was really cool. Don't miss being pregnant though. Did not have a fun pregnancy.
Nikke Ankara - Spesiaali https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p3NYuXOCrGQ
give me "tingles". It's like frisson you can get from music but more intense (at least for me). It's just a way to relax.
I always explain it like this: it's kind of like meditating, concentrating on the sound. I get calm and centered and some sounds trigger 1/2
Though, I personally don't like heather freather. WhispersRedASMR is my go to gal.
It's not a fetish. I get no sexual pleasure from it. For me it's more like meditating, consentrating on the sound. I get calm and happy.
I use to consider myself a decent human being. Then I laughed too hard at this. +1
So weird, just watched this episode (again) last night. Quite happy to hear he didn't die in the war.
I'm sorry that happened to you. :(
My son was extracted with a corkscrew motion. It felt horrible, but at least he didn't break anything.
Also ground floor is missing a closet where the bopit and the boxes with ex-stuff were. Should be where the bathroom is. 2/2
Yeah, it felt a bit wrong to me too. Always thought they just made Lorelai's room bigger, not another room altogether. 1/2
I'm not 100% sure, but that might be the addition Luke and Lorelai built later on.
You just made me think for the first time how (or what) am I gonna tell my son about my father and my childhood when he's older. Weird.
I feel you. I'm actually really glad my father never called again (it's been almost two years now since that call).
Stay strong! Sending lots of love via interwebs.
...arrange us to meet so he could see my son. It really made me sad. Why did he care about him when he never cared about me? 2/2
I didn't have postpartum but it wasn't instant love either. It was more like "Huh, there you are. What the hell do we do now?".
I instantly knew that was finnish porridge, I don't know how. :D Anyway, nice post. I'll always upvote my country(wo)men.
but I'm pretty sure it'll end in a few years. (Also a Finn btw.) 2/2
My (adult) friend still kisses her mother on the lips. Use to it now, doen't seem weird. My 3y also kisses me, it's cute 1/2
Felt like I didn't deserve it somehow. Started to shape my brows and use make up because I had started to feel good about myself.
Might be for some people. Totally opposite for me. I use to have really low self worth and I didn't use make up or shape my brows. 1/2
...that brand. And people tend to pick stuff they've seen/heard of before. 2/2
They might not remember outright, yes. But later when they need a new shampoo etc. and go to the store, they might recognize... 1/2
Europa is one of Jupiter's moons.
This! Who the hell eats 32 grapes...
My mom is 51 and has always said she still doesn't feel like an adult. So I'm really not expecting it to kick in anytime soon (I'm 29).
Yeah, every pregnancy is different. You might even have a nice and serene pregnancy next. Let's hope so!
Mine wasn't that bad, thankfully. I'm still a bit hesitant about having another.
Doesn't horrify me either. Always thought this was really cool. Don't miss being pregnant though. Did not have a fun pregnancy.
Nikke Ankara - Spesiaali https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=p3NYuXOCrGQ
give me "tingles". It's like frisson you can get from music but more intense (at least for me). It's just a way to relax.
I always explain it like this: it's kind of like meditating, concentrating on the sound. I get calm and centered and some sounds trigger 1/2
Though, I personally don't like heather freather. WhispersRedASMR is my go to gal.
It's not a fetish. I get no sexual pleasure from it. For me it's more like meditating, consentrating on the sound. I get calm and happy.
I use to consider myself a decent human being. Then I laughed too hard at this. +1
So weird, just watched this episode (again) last night. Quite happy to hear he didn't die in the war.
I'm sorry that happened to you. :(
My son was extracted with a corkscrew motion. It felt horrible, but at least he didn't break anything.
Also ground floor is missing a closet where the bopit and the boxes with ex-stuff were. Should be where the bathroom is. 2/2
Yeah, it felt a bit wrong to me too. Always thought they just made Lorelai's room bigger, not another room altogether. 1/2
I'm not 100% sure, but that might be the addition Luke and Lorelai built later on.
You just made me think for the first time how (or what) am I gonna tell my son about my father and my childhood when he's older. Weird.
I feel you. I'm actually really glad my father never called again (it's been almost two years now since that call).
Stay strong! Sending lots of love via interwebs.
...arrange us to meet so he could see my son. It really made me sad. Why did he care about him when he never cared about me? 2/2