19150 pts ยท January 16, 2018
I once went into the mosh pit at Wacken cause it looked fun. When I inevitably fell, a couple of huge dudes hepled me up and shouted at me if I was okay, then we merrily continued. I did not expect help or anything, it was pleasantly surprising. I was a tiny girl back then, so it was also an inclusive space, I guess, no stupid gatekeeping
"Women are your most authentic self" <3
I'm going to hell for laughing like a hyena at this, +1
Subnautica is a very beautiful game and suitable for a non-gamer to start getting into games (case in point: my gf). I highly recommend!
My gf used to watch me play certain plot-heavy games (or just something that generally looks beautiful) like a semi-interactive movie. Thankfully, she doesn't anymore, because we finally found the genre she could enjoy playing, and now we play together! Divinity Original Sin 1-2 first, and now BG3. She can't handle real-time first person games, but something turn-based where she gets to make a cool character? Yes, please! I reciprocate by supporting her (very single-person) hobby - drawing:)
I don't think he told the others but in the dorms everyone knew who spends nights where. We shared the small bed and cuddled, it was cold af
Iirc we were close to that a few times but it's hard to tell. He did do massage for me (I was half naked, but still kinda decent?) /1
Except my dumb inexperienced self. I was 17, he was about 20, so he was probably waiting age of consent. There were probably clues I missed.
said "It's my girlfriend"... And I was like "wait WHAT?" Turns out everyone we knew, friends of friends, roommates etc knew we were dating/3
talking with me about random shit all through the night. After about 6 months of this we met his professor, who asked him who I was. He /2
I had a friend in uni who spent a lot of time with me just going for walks, getting groceries, watching me play video games or just /1
#7 Ah Kos, or some say Kosm... grant us eyes, grant us eyes! Plant eyes on our brains, to cleanse our beastly idiocy...
For some dumb reason this made my day! Just people having fun, not caring how they look... Makes me smile
#14 i am having a bad day, and this helped somewhat... Also, @OP you have a beautiful kitty! Give hugs and lots of scritches!
possibly something worse. Thank you @OP for the amazing stories, I like reading them, but looks like diving is just not my thing :)
felt on the verge of a panic attack and opted out. I lost the money and the enjoyment of a dive, but I still think I saved myself from /3
distractions all around. When they started actually showing us how to clear the regulator and all that stuff, I legit /2
I was offered an introductory dive in almost exact same circumstances as this girl: bare minimum briefing with people creating noise and /1
But... You are not acknowledging yours, you are basically calling OP an asshole. That's what I meant.
can fix that issue for them, but blaming them for potential trauma in the past is not a productive approach either. /End
Perhaps I misunderstood your initial comment, but it read to me like you were disparaging OP for the very same issue. Of course, no one /1
You're right. Man am I bad at homo math!
It may or may not be OP's case for all we know. /End
It's a complicated subject, but yeah, subconscious (I don't deserve better) may play a role in the way they end up in toxic relationships /2
(not) fun fact: people who are emotionally vulnerable due to childhood/relationship trauma tend to attract those who would prey upon them /1
Bold of you to assume that. You know nothing about them and their relationship, so why jump to the stereotypical conclusion?
What if he says "less homo" next time? Will it cancel out the skipped "no homo"?
Unless you find THE Man for you
I once went into the mosh pit at Wacken cause it looked fun. When I inevitably fell, a couple of huge dudes hepled me up and shouted at me if I was okay, then we merrily continued. I did not expect help or anything, it was pleasantly surprising. I was a tiny girl back then, so it was also an inclusive space, I guess, no stupid gatekeeping
"Women are your most authentic self" <3
I'm going to hell for laughing like a hyena at this, +1
Subnautica is a very beautiful game and suitable for a non-gamer to start getting into games (case in point: my gf). I highly recommend!
My gf used to watch me play certain plot-heavy games (or just something that generally looks beautiful) like a semi-interactive movie. Thankfully, she doesn't anymore, because we finally found the genre she could enjoy playing, and now we play together! Divinity Original Sin 1-2 first, and now BG3. She can't handle real-time first person games, but something turn-based where she gets to make a cool character? Yes, please! I reciprocate by supporting her (very single-person) hobby - drawing:)
I don't think he told the others but in the dorms everyone knew who spends nights where. We shared the small bed and cuddled, it was cold af
Iirc we were close to that a few times but it's hard to tell. He did do massage for me (I was half naked, but still kinda decent?) /1
Except my dumb inexperienced self. I was 17, he was about 20, so he was probably waiting age of consent. There were probably clues I missed.
said "It's my girlfriend"... And I was like "wait WHAT?" Turns out everyone we knew, friends of friends, roommates etc knew we were dating/3
talking with me about random shit all through the night. After about 6 months of this we met his professor, who asked him who I was. He /2
I had a friend in uni who spent a lot of time with me just going for walks, getting groceries, watching me play video games or just /1
#7 Ah Kos, or some say Kosm... grant us eyes, grant us eyes! Plant eyes on our brains, to cleanse our beastly idiocy...
For some dumb reason this made my day! Just people having fun, not caring how they look... Makes me smile
#14 i am having a bad day, and this helped somewhat... Also, @OP you have a beautiful kitty! Give hugs and lots of scritches!
possibly something worse. Thank you @OP for the amazing stories, I like reading them, but looks like diving is just not my thing :)
felt on the verge of a panic attack and opted out. I lost the money and the enjoyment of a dive, but I still think I saved myself from /3
distractions all around. When they started actually showing us how to clear the regulator and all that stuff, I legit /2
I was offered an introductory dive in almost exact same circumstances as this girl: bare minimum briefing with people creating noise and /1
But... You are not acknowledging yours, you are basically calling OP an asshole. That's what I meant.
can fix that issue for them, but blaming them for potential trauma in the past is not a productive approach either. /End
Perhaps I misunderstood your initial comment, but it read to me like you were disparaging OP for the very same issue. Of course, no one /1
You're right. Man am I bad at homo math!
It may or may not be OP's case for all we know. /End
It's a complicated subject, but yeah, subconscious (I don't deserve better) may play a role in the way they end up in toxic relationships /2
(not) fun fact: people who are emotionally vulnerable due to childhood/relationship trauma tend to attract those who would prey upon them /1
Bold of you to assume that. You know nothing about them and their relationship, so why jump to the stereotypical conclusion?
What if he says "less homo" next time? Will it cancel out the skipped "no homo"?
Unless you find THE Man for you